
September 4th, 2011, it was going toward twilight; I was sitting under a shady palm in the Bichabob clan. I was told the day before that a young girl had died. I had told the family I wanted to visit them and learn about the now-deceased girl. The family agreed and was very appreciative of my curiosity. To compare, I noted, “My grandpa turned 94 years of age just 2 days ago,” I said to Joseph (my translator). “Oh! Then he’s too old,” he said excitedly with laughter in his voice (he meant that as a good thing). I began with my questions. “So, please, how old was the girl that died? Was she in her 20s?” “Oh no, she was 19 or 20 maybe…they say they have the date written,” they told me. Good, I thought, as I wanted to give the most accurate representation of this deceased girl as possible. The father of the deceased girl returned with a book – a bible, believe it or not, reminding me of the old family bible my mom has in their house next to the recliner. It was filled with dates, names, and accounts of births. “Atta, is the girl’s name,” they said. Upon searching the front pages of their family’s bible, I found no such name. “How about Tawia? Was she Atta’s sister? Was Atta older than Tawia?” I offered. “Tawia is her sister, but she’s younger, they think Atta was 2 years older,” they replied. Okay, so Tawia was born in July of 1988, we’ll give Atta a birth year of 1986. This meant she was about 25 years old. My age.
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Atta was born in 1986 to her mother Yaa and father Bitumba. Yaa and Bitumba are both farmers, farming yam and cassava. Neither of them has gone to school, and they’re not sure of their age (they actually ask me to tell them how old they are). I told them they were “old,” to which the whole of family around our meeting place responded with laughter and acceptance. Bitumba has 9 children and 2 wives; all are living with the recent exception of Atta. He doesn’t have any hobbies, he just farms. Yaa has given birth to 6 children, she tells me all are still living except for Atta, which I doubt as they tend not to include children who pass before they reach the age of 5. In Konkomba if a mother gives birth to a child, and that child dies, her next child will be named Jagri, meaning that the deceased child has come back again. There are a lot of Jagri’s in this village.
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Yaa is confined to the compound because she “has become blind.” Atta has 6 living siblings, and one daughter named Umborinye. Umborinye means “God Knows” in Konkomba (the local language); she looks no older than 5 years. Atta was married to a man named Tamanja, he only officially was married to her, but I was told he had 2 wives. The other one was just for “friendship,” not official. Tamanja will take care of Umborinye now that Atta died. Atta farmed yams and cassava at her father’s farm, attended church in the village, and attended school up to 4th grade before dropping out.
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“She was sick a long time” was the answer I got in response to the question whether or not her death was sudden. When I asked them to describe the sickness, Bitumba talked for a long time in Konkomba. When he was finished Joseph said, “She had epilepsy.” “That wasn’t all he said, Joseph! Translate it all for me!” I said. “Okay, well, one certain day she met a man, he gave her money and told her to buy food with it. She bought food and brought it home. She was preparing it in the courtyard by the fire when she collapsed in front of the whole family. They all saw it. She was shaking and throwing her limbs around; she had a lot of saliva around her mouth. When her eyes finally opened and she stopped shaking they asked her what had happened, she didn’t know.” I pressed, “So do they think that man who gave her money to buy food caused her sickness?” “They haven’t seen the man before or again, and neither did she,” he replied (implying that they did indeed think the man had something to do with her sickness). When I asked how long ago her first attack happened, no one could remember, just saying, “a long time, and she’s been falling monthly.” On the 2nd of September, in the evening time “just like now,” (the time period of the interview) she had a similar attack. The whole family saw it again. This time, her eyes never opened again.
“So then what?” I asked. “We never bury a person during the day, the sun is too hot. So, since it happened in the evening and the coffin wasn’t ready, we had to wait until the next evening to bury her.” Dying young here isn’t good. If you’re old and you die, that is natural and normal. If you die when you are old, you will receive the honor of an immediate funeral 3 days after you die, then you will be “buried in your house” or near your home/within the village. If you were very old and respected you will have a “final funeral” later on when the family can raise enough money to have a big celebration with lots of eating, drinking, and dancing. If you die when you’re young, it’s unnatural and often suspect of something evil. In this case you will be buried in the “kichee” or cemetery, in the bush, far away from the village. Your family will mourn for 3 days, then return to normal daily life. If a child dies, there’s even less observance given. The child is buried, again far away from the village in the bush, and only close family is privy to the fact that a child is gone. Not many people notice and the most visibly affected person is the older sibling on who’s back that child spent most of their days.
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As a person raised in a 1st world country, one of my first instincts is to find out exactly why a person died. This situation was no different. Epilepsy is surprisingly common in this village. No one in Atta’s family has a history of it thankfully. If there’s medicine available to the average Ghanaian, I don’t know of it. I asked the family to share with me anything else about her, but unfortunately the lasting impression they have of her, is her post-epileptic behavior. “She’d been very stubborn, you ask her to do something, she won’t mind you.” “Once you have epilepsy you won’t have good mind again.” I can only imagine the amount of brain damage resulting from untreated monthly seizures on concrete floor for “a long time.” So it was likely she died from an untreated seizure.
I considered my curiosity satisfied. But this is a significant difference between my culture back in the states and the culture here. People don’t ask why someone died here, it’s not important to them, it isn’t realized as a potential learning point to prevent a similar death. Death is immediately accepted, no questions asked.
I remember when leaving my job at the UW Hospital I had a premonition of being frustrated with the lack of resources in Ghana for treatable illnesses, this has come true. Save for malaria, dengue and yellow fever, dysentery, malnutrition and the many other 3rd world diseases and conditions we have in Ghana, we have 1st world chronic illnesses as well, without access to 1st world resources. As a result, people die here—more than would otherwise. I didn’t write this to make you feel guilty or for sympathy. I wrote it to expand your knowledge of the world, to show how things are in different areas and cultures and how people cope with their situations.
At the end of my time sitting with Atta’s family, I asked them if they were sad she was gone. They responded tearfully that of course they were sad. To an outsider, their way of coping with death may appear cold and callus, but it’s their tradition. It’s not lack of caring or feeling sad, it’s simply how they do things.
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